You’re doing a good job. It’s hard to human.
I’ve heard too many women in my life recently share their to do list of things they aren’t doing well. I only see all the stuff they ARE doing and all the ways they’re taking care of others. I’m so tired of wellness bullshit and cultural narratives acting like individuals can change systematic problems. A…
Santa Barbara sights
I recently got back from a quick beach trip to Santa Barbara. It was delightful. I loved spending time with one of my best friends, eating delicious food, drinking great wine and spending days reading on the beach. Just what I needed to relax and recharge. The ocean and waves and water are so healing.…
The azaleas are here
They’re pink. They’re white. They’re purply, too. Popping out for all to view. The azaleas are here. I took a walk around the neighborhood last weekend and marveled at the number of azaleas. They’re so pretty and joyful. My favorite memory of azaleas is with our old next door neighbor Skippy. He would come…
What currently brings me joy
Adulting is hard, and the responsibilities of work, family and general stuff to deal with is not fun. This is why I sometimes tell my niece to enjoy her childhood while it lasts. I’ll have to tell my nephew too. I like to find small wins or things that bring me joy. I remember my…
Aunt Life: Disney movies
I am so happy kids today are growing up with Moana, Vivo, Encanto, Frozen and Red Panda. It’s incredible to see so many stories about diverse female heroes saving the day and unconcerned about finding a prince. I’m glad my niece is exposed to these stories. Inspired and empowered Honestly I’ve cried at times watching…
The story of Boppi
I met Boppi in December 2019 at a white elephant party. I didn’t know her name. All I knew was that there was a booty-shaking llama toy, and I had to have it. My niece needed to experience this but so did I. Boppi shakes her booty and shakes her head at the same time…